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<br/><br/><br/><br/><br/>------- 원본 내용 ---------<br/><br/><br/><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 240px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;">며칠 전 교회의 한 성도님과 대화를 나누며 '약점'에 대한 이야기를 하게 되었습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">문득 문득 튀어나오는 자신의 약점 때문에 목표했던 일이 수포로 돌아간다는 것 이었습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">제 약점에 대해 생각해봤습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">나도 알고, 주변 사람들도 알지만, 누구도 말해주지 못하는 <br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 64px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">나의 치명적 약점은<br />바로 '예민한 성격' 이었습니다.</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_image default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea se_align-center" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; text-align: center; max-width: none; font-size: 0px;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea" style="position: relative; margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 400px;"><a href="https://blog.naver.com/PostView.nhn?blogId=jeweldanbi&logNo=221081295254&categoryNo=12&parentCategoryNo=&from=thumbnailList#" class="se_mediaArea __se_image_link __se_link" data-linktype="img" data-linkdata="{"imgId" : "SEDOC-1503986569748--2138783911_image_1_img", "src" : "https://postfiles.pstatic.net/MjAxNzA4MjRfMTQ0/MDAxNTAzNTYxMTc0NTEz.zRdgmRgCntD0czxw779S1GQp8KtXrKYLHyMFrLTp4osg.6rnai0OSpqgFnN_n03XkQ0tALlK8y6l1taGQBtxdXSAg.JPEG.jeweldanbi/image_3160160271503559871428.jpg", "linkUse" : "false", "link" : ""}" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-decoration-line: none; position: relative; display: block;"><img id="SEDOC-1503986569748--2138783911_image_1_img" class="se_mediaImage __se_img_el" src="https://postfiles.pstatic.net/MjAxNzA4MjRfMTQ0/MDAxNTAzNTYxMTc0NTEz.zRdgmRgCntD0czxw779S1GQp8KtXrKYLHyMFrLTp4osg.6rnai0OSpqgFnN_n03XkQ0tALlK8y6l1taGQBtxdXSAg.JPEG.jeweldanbi/image_3160160271503559871428.jpg?type=w773" width="400" height="511" data-attachment-id="I1mw4gdY1zBqISJKluYo20TOZoLA" alt="" style="border-style: initial; vertical-align: top; height: auto; width: 400px; max-width: 100%;"></a></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 330px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">저는 하나님을 믿고 나서, 성령의 충만한 경험을 하고 나서도 때때로 이 약점에서 자유하지 못했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">상대방의 말과 행동에 예민하게 반응하는 제 성격은<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">스스로를 피곤하게 했고, 상대방을 조심스럽게 만들어 친밀한 관계로 진전되지 못하게 막고 있었습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">대신, 저는 예민하지 않은 사람들을 좋아했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그래서 예민이라고는 1%도 없을 것만 같은 우리 신랑에게 푹 빠져버렸는지도 모릅니다.</span><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">(결혼하고 살다보니 우리 신랑도 어떤 부분에 있어선 예민하다는 것을 알았지만요)<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">아주 완벽히 예민하지 않은 사람은 없습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">쉽게 예를 들어<br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 64px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">대부분의 사람이 '돈'에 예민합니다.<br />물질적으로 손해를 보는 것에 아주 민감 합니다.</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 180px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">아무튼 저는 제 예민한 성격이 참 싫었고 고치고 싶었습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그리고 <br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">어느날 설교시간에 목사님께서<br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 64px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">하나님이 전지전능한 신이라면<br />설마 '당신의 그 작은 성격하나 못 고치겠느냐?'</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 600px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">라는 말씀에 아멘하고 기도했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">정확하게 말해서 교회에서 시키는 "사랑기도"를 했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">비단 예민한 성격때문 만을 위한 기도는 아니었고<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">하나님을 만난 이후로 깨달은 (특히, 부정적인것에)<span style="background-color: inherit;">예민한 성격을 포함해</span><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span>제 속의 모든 나약하고, (죄악인지도 몰랐던)죄악된 행실, 마음을 해결하기 위해 기도했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">온 마음, 온 몸으로 하나님의 사랑을 갈망하며 기도한 끝에<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">성경에서 말하는 예수님의 진리의 사랑(살후2:10)을 받았습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그리고 예민한 성격이 바뀌어지기 시작했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">예전에 저는 누군가를 볼때, </span><span style="background-color: inherit;">나보다 잘난 사람이면 질투했고<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">나보다 잘났지만 내 판단에 선한 사람이면 존경했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">또, 상대가 제 마음에 거리끼는 말을 했을때 상대방에게 마음을 닫았고 <br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">교묘한 방법으로 되갚아주기도 했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그러나<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">지금은 누구나에게 똑같은 마음이 생깁니다.<br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 96px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">"하나님 사랑, 이웃 사랑"<br />하나님을 사랑하니 저절로 사람이 좋아지는 이상한(?)현상이<br />내게 이뤄진 것 입니다.</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 390px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">사람을 좋아하고 싶어도<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">내 예민한 판단 때문에 도저히 좋아할 수가 없었는데<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">1. 상대의 그 모습 그대로 인정하게 되고<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">2. 상대가 어떤 사람이든, 우리는 하나님의 자녀로 '하나' 라고 생각되니<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">상대방이 나에게 뭐라고 말하고, 행동하던 간에<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">하나님 보시기 아름다우면 기쁘고<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그게 아닐땐, 그를 위해 축복기도하게 되는<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">이전에 나라면 상상할 수 없는 이상한 일들이 벌어지고 있는 것 입니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그러면 때론 이런<span style="background-color: inherit;"> 질문을 하십니다.</span><br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 32px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">그러면 늘 세상에, 사람에게 양보하며, 희생만하며 살아야겠네요?</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 360px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">이 사랑을 받고 </span><span style="background-color: inherit;">더욱 놀라운 것</span><span style="background-color: inherit;">은</span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">보여지기에는 양보하고 희생하고 진 것 같은데도<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">생각지 못한 방법으로 하나님께서 세상 위로 세우신다는 것 입니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">(제가 그렇다고, "양보했으니 저 보시죠? 하나님이 보상해주세요." <br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">라는 기도를 하는 것도 아닌데 말이죠)<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">하루는 제게 안좋은 말을 하시는 분을 위해 축복기도를 하는데 </span><span style="background-color: inherit;">순간적으로 인간적인 마음이 들었습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">"그런데 제가 이렇게까지 해요? </span><span style="background-color: inherit;">제가 너무 억울한데요."</span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">이렇게 하나님께 투덜 거린적이 있었습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그때 제게 주신 마음의 응답은<br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 32px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">"용서하는 사람이 이긴다, 더 진실하게 축복해보렴"</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 450px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">이었습니다. </span><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그 분을 진실하게 축복한 이후 저와 그분의 <span style="background-color: inherit;">대화방식이 달랐을 뿐이라는 것을 알게 되었습니다.</span><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">저는 더이상 그분의 말에 거리낌이 없어졌을 뿐더러<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그분께서 먼저 부탁한 적도 없는 제 일을 기꺼이 도와주시며 가까워졌습니다.</span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;">상대방의 허물이 안보일 순 없지만 그 허물을 용서하고 축복하면</span><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;">그 사람의 장점으로 나를 돕게 하시고 화목케 하시는 것이 '하나님 사랑의 능력' 입니다.</span></span><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;">또, 이 사랑을 하면 할 수록 선한 분별력이 생기는 것을 느낍니다.</span><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">너희로</span></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;"> 지극히</ins></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;"> </ins></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;">선한</ins></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;"> </ins></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;">것을</ins></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;"> </ins></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;">분별</ins></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;">하며</ins></span></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"> 또 진실하여 허물 없이</span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"> 그리스도</span></span><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">의 날까지 이르고</span><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">빌립보서 1:10</span></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 160px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">나의 능력으로는 세상도 사람도 심지어는 내 자신 조차도 이길 수 없으나<br />하나님은 이미 세상을 사랑으로 이기셨습니다.<br /><br />그래서 예수님을 영접하는 자, 그 이름을 믿는 우리가 <br />복음을 들고 세상 위에 서 있는 것 입니다.</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 510px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"></span><span style="color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"></span><span style="color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">자녀들아 너희는 하나님께 속하였고 또 그들</span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">을 이기</span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">었나니 </span><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">이는 너희 안에 계신 이가 </span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">세상에 있는 자보다 크심이라</span></span><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">요한일서4:4</span><br /></span><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"></span><br />-기 도-<br />저의 예민함을 사랑의 선한 분별력으로 바꾸어 주신 하나님 감사합니다.<br />자신의 성격 때문에 관계가 힘들고 고통스러운 청년들이 있습니다.<br />해결하고자 고군분투하는 청년들이 있습니다.<br />그 청년들 모두 모아주셔서 주님의 사랑으로 치유하시고 선한 영향력으로 땅을 정복하게 하소서.<br />예수님의 이름으로 기도 드립니다.<br />아멘.<br /><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"></span><br /><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">GOD BLESS YOU</span><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"></span><br><div><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div class="autosourcing-stub-extra" style="zoom: 1; opacity: 1;"></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>

<div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 240px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;">며칠 전 교회의 한 성도님과 대화를 나누며 '약점'에 대한 이야기를 하게 되었습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">문득 문득 튀어나오는 자신의 약점 때문에 목표했던 일이 수포로 돌아간다는 것 이었습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">제 약점에 대해 생각해봤습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">나도 알고, 주변 사람들도 알지만, 누구도 말해주지 못하는 <br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 64px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">나의 치명적 약점은<br />바로 '예민한 성격' 이었습니다.</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_image default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea se_align-center" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; text-align: center; max-width: none; font-size: 0px;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea" style="position: relative; 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line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">저는 하나님을 믿고 나서, 성령의 충만한 경험을 하고 나서도 때때로 이 약점에서 자유하지 못했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">상대방의 말과 행동에 예민하게 반응하는 제 성격은<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">스스로를 피곤하게 했고, 상대방을 조심스럽게 만들어 친밀한 관계로 진전되지 못하게 막고 있었습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">대신, 저는 예민하지 않은 사람들을 좋아했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그래서 예민이라고는 1%도 없을 것만 같은 우리 신랑에게 푹 빠져버렸는지도 모릅니다.</span><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">(결혼하고 살다보니 우리 신랑도 어떤 부분에 있어선 예민하다는 것을 알았지만요)<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">아주 완벽히 예민하지 않은 사람은 없습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">쉽게 예를 들어<br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 64px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">대부분의 사람이 '돈'에 예민합니다.<br />물질적으로 손해를 보는 것에 아주 민감 합니다.</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 180px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">아무튼 저는 제 예민한 성격이 참 싫었고 고치고 싶었습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그리고 <br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">어느날 설교시간에 목사님께서<br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 64px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">하나님이 전지전능한 신이라면<br />설마 '당신의 그 작은 성격하나 못 고치겠느냐?'</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 600px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">라는 말씀에 아멘하고 기도했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">정확하게 말해서 교회에서 시키는 "사랑기도"를 했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">비단 예민한 성격때문 만을 위한 기도는 아니었고<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">하나님을 만난 이후로 깨달은 (특히, 부정적인것에)<span style="background-color: inherit;">예민한 성격을 포함해</span><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span>제 속의 모든 나약하고, (죄악인지도 몰랐던)죄악된 행실, 마음을 해결하기 위해 기도했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">온 마음, 온 몸으로 하나님의 사랑을 갈망하며 기도한 끝에<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">성경에서 말하는 예수님의 진리의 사랑(살후2:10)을 받았습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그리고 예민한 성격이 바뀌어지기 시작했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">예전에 저는 누군가를 볼때, </span><span style="background-color: inherit;">나보다 잘난 사람이면 질투했고<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">나보다 잘났지만 내 판단에 선한 사람이면 존경했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">또, 상대가 제 마음에 거리끼는 말을 했을때 상대방에게 마음을 닫았고 <br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">교묘한 방법으로 되갚아주기도 했습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그러나<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">지금은 누구나에게 똑같은 마음이 생깁니다.<br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 96px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">"하나님 사랑, 이웃 사랑"<br />하나님을 사랑하니 저절로 사람이 좋아지는 이상한(?)현상이<br />내게 이뤄진 것 입니다.</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 390px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">사람을 좋아하고 싶어도<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">내 예민한 판단 때문에 도저히 좋아할 수가 없었는데<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">1. 상대의 그 모습 그대로 인정하게 되고<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">2. 상대가 어떤 사람이든, 우리는 하나님의 자녀로 '하나' 라고 생각되니<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">상대방이 나에게 뭐라고 말하고, 행동하던 간에<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">하나님 보시기 아름다우면 기쁘고<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그게 아닐땐, 그를 위해 축복기도하게 되는<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">이전에 나라면 상상할 수 없는 이상한 일들이 벌어지고 있는 것 입니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그러면 때론 이런<span style="background-color: inherit;"> 질문을 하십니다.</span><br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 32px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">그러면 늘 세상에, 사람에게 양보하며, 희생만하며 살아야겠네요?</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 360px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">이 사랑을 받고 </span><span style="background-color: inherit;">더욱 놀라운 것</span><span style="background-color: inherit;">은</span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">보여지기에는 양보하고 희생하고 진 것 같은데도<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">생각지 못한 방법으로 하나님께서 세상 위로 세우신다는 것 입니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">(제가 그렇다고, "양보했으니 저 보시죠? 하나님이 보상해주세요." <br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">라는 기도를 하는 것도 아닌데 말이죠)<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">하루는 제게 안좋은 말을 하시는 분을 위해 축복기도를 하는데 </span><span style="background-color: inherit;">순간적으로 인간적인 마음이 들었습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">"그런데 제가 이렇게까지 해요? </span><span style="background-color: inherit;">제가 너무 억울한데요."</span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">이렇게 하나님께 투덜 거린적이 있었습니다.<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그때 제게 주신 마음의 응답은<br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 32px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">"용서하는 사람이 이긴다, 더 진실하게 축복해보렴"</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 450px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">이었습니다. </span><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그 분을 진실하게 축복한 이후 저와 그분의 <span style="background-color: inherit;">대화방식이 달랐을 뿐이라는 것을 알게 되었습니다.</span><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">저는 더이상 그분의 말에 거리낌이 없어졌을 뿐더러<br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;">그분께서 먼저 부탁한 적도 없는 제 일을 기꺼이 도와주시며 가까워졌습니다.</span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;">상대방의 허물이 안보일 순 없지만 그 허물을 용서하고 축복하면</span><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;">그 사람의 장점으로 나를 돕게 하시고 화목케 하시는 것이 '하나님 사랑의 능력' 입니다.</span></span><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;">또, 이 사랑을 하면 할 수록 선한 분별력이 생기는 것을 느낍니다.</span><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">너희로</span></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;"> 지극히</ins></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;"> </ins></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;">선한</ins></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;"> </ins></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;">것을</ins></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;"> </ins></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;">분별</ins></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><ins style="background-color: inherit;">하며</ins></span></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"> 또 진실하여 허물 없이</span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"> 그리스도</span></span><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">의 날까지 이르고</span><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"></span></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">빌립보서 1:10</span></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit; color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><br /></span><br></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_quotation default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔명조, nanummyeongjo, se_NanumMyeongjo, serif, simsun; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2" style="position: relative; font-size: 19px; line-height: 1.7; font-style: italic; text-align: center;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 31px 40px;"><div class="se_textView"><blockquote class="se_textarea" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; width: 627px; height: 160px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none;">나의 능력으로는 세상도 사람도 심지어는 내 자신 조차도 이길 수 없으나<br />하나님은 이미 세상을 사랑으로 이기셨습니다.<br /><br />그래서 예수님을 영접하는 자, 그 이름을 믿는 우리가 <br />복음을 들고 세상 위에 서 있는 것 입니다.</blockquote></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="se_component se_paragraph default" style="margin-top: 30px; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, sans-serif, simhei; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; word-break: normal; margin-left: 40px; margin-right: 40px;"><div class="se_sectionArea" style="position: relative; width: 707px; margin: 0px auto; max-width: none;"><div class="se_editArea" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center" style="position: relative; text-align: center; font-family: 나눔고딕, nanumgothic, se_NanumGothic, AppleSDGothicNeo, sans-serif, simhei; font-size: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; line-height: 1.9;"><div class="se_editView" style="position: relative;"><div class="se_textView"><p class="se_textarea" style="width: 707px; height: 510px; outline: 0px; border: none; background: 0px 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; color: inherit; text-align: inherit; font-style: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; resize: none; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-all;"><span style="color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"></span><span style="color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"></span><span style="color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">자녀들아 너희는 하나님께 속하였고 또 그들</span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">을 이기</span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">었나니 </span><br /></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">이는 너희 안에 계신 이가 </span></span><span style="background-color: inherit;"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">세상에 있는 자보다 크심이라</span></span><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(243, 112, 76);"><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;">요한일서4:4</span><br /></span><span style="font-weight: 600; background-color: inherit;"></span><br />-기 도-<br />저의 예민함을 사랑의 선한 분별력으로 바꾸어 주신 하나님 감사합니다.<br />자신의 성격 때문에 관계가 힘들고 고통스러운 청년들이 있습니다.<br />해결하고자 고군분투하는 청년들이 있습니다.<br />그 청년들 모두 모아주셔서 주님의 사랑으로 치유하시고 선한 영향력으로 땅을 정복하게 하소서.<br />예수님의 이름으로 기도 드립니다.<br />아멘.<br /><span style="font-weight: 600; 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